these cuties ran circles around me! |
I woke up on Thursday to a missed call from my friend Rachel from Bakersfield. I talk to Rachel on an almost daily basis on our company communicator, so it was kind of strange that she had called my cell phone. After a game of phone tag, we finally got in touch and she let me know that one of the operations supervisors that I had worked very closely with in Bakersfield had passed away on Wednesday from a heart attack. It took all day for the news to really sink in, and it just broke my heart. Rachel and a few of the other folks that worked with Dave decided to put together a book with notes and photos of all our favorite memories of him to share with his family. When you work 10-14 hours a day with someone, you have no other choice to develop close relationships and most of the time you learn all about the person and their families without ever meeting any family members. I can't imagine a greater gift for Dave's family than a book of memories from people that you've never met reiterating how great of a man Dave was and the positive impact he had on so many lives. I was so upset that I won't be able to attend Dave's funeral services, but selfishly being able to write down my thoughts, taking the time to remember Dave and to share my favorite memory of him helped tremendously....
Dave Brantley was hands down the smartest, most patient man I've ever known. With that said, he never made ANYTHING easy... Being a woman in a field full of men, it's always difficult starting a job in a new area because you have to "prove" yourself before any of the operations folks will listen to anything you say. In October of 2011, moving to McKittrick was no exception to this rule. Luckily, I had worked with a few of the thermal folks in a previous position, so I knew Mike Bryan and Dave Matthews, but Mr. Brantley was new to me.
I will never forget the time I spent with Dave in December 2011. December in the office is always pretty quiet. As a new(ish) employee, I has already used up my 2 weeks of vacation so I was on holiday duty. One of my co-workers had left me some work to start up a water line following a repair, and since I had zero knowledge of where the line even was I called up Dave to get some background info. As we were driving out to the pumps, he started asking me questions about the start up procedure that I had written and given to him for review. Simple questions, like what is the operating presure of the line. I immediately started to have my doubts about him and began asking probing questions about how long he had been working in McKittrick and what his Chevron career had been. It was completely obvious that he was more than qualified to be the approver of my start up procedure, but I couldn't figure out why he was asking such simple questions like what kind of pump was on the line. Long story short, we spent 3-days together trying to get that line started up (and many more in the following years), and Dave was constantly asking me quesitons along the way. Not because he wanted to know the answer, but because he wanted me to be 100% aware of what I was doing and how each little component of the system affected this job. In fact, I'm not sure that he ever asked a question he didn't at least partially know the answer to...
By the end of my time in McKittrick, I looked to Dave as a father-figure, but more importantly a confidant - someone I could really trust and had so much confidence in. Dave had the unique ability to exert authority and command respect while maintaining this almost calming effect on any situation. There could be fire balls coming out of the sky, and he would still slowly walk into our office with a smile and some snarky comment about how Rachel needed to get started building a new flare system (which is a whole other story...).
Dave's job description didn't include teacher, it didn't require him to be a mentor, and it definitely didn't hold him accountable for developing young engineer's technical competency, but he did all of that and more. I know that I am one of hundreds of people that Dave has had an impact on, and my time spent with him is time that will never be forgotten. I feel so blessed to have had him in my life, and wanted to thank YOU for sharing him with our McKittrick family.
Needless to say, this week has been full of highs and lows but it's come to a closing on a high. I woke up to an email from Chad saying he and his friend, Andrew, made it safely to BRAZIL! I already knew they had made it because I watched the entire 11 hour flight on flightaware.com...yes, I am a creep. I wanted to be the first to know if that Korean Air flight went off the radar and you better believe I would have led the charge looking for those pings :)
Sunday breakfast...have I mentioned that I have the best guys over here??
I cannot believe that it's already time for me to get gone, but there's no doubt about the fact that I am SO excited to be headed home on Tuesday. I'm landing on Wednesday and taking off Thursday morning for a joint birthday celebration for my big bro and sister from another mister (Alanna) in CABO SAN LUCAS! I cannot wait to be reunited with some of my favorite people for a real vacation of nothing but sun, surf, and drinks with umbrellas :):)
33 days down, 2 more to go! xoxo...